We often find ourselves in a transitional period after we awake to the spiritual world. This transitional period is filled with a variety of possibilities. Every bit of positive and negative gets amplified many more times than we could realise before. We would gradually start to shed layers and layers of old patterns while what and whom we attract would faithfully reflect our inner transformation to a new version of us like a mirror.
Let’s say you hired someone to do the landscaping for your garden 6 months ago. He could get started after you get the landscaping design. After a few months, as soon as the first draft of the garden design came out, you phoned to inform him to get started on the job. But when he turned up, you found out that he has already taken other jobs during the exact time. So he was actually not able to fit your landscaping work into his schedule. He required three weeks away to finish his work in hand. However, it was spring, the golden time of the year to plant seeds and start with everything in a garden. That is why you tried to discuss with him on hiring someone else to do the work in these three weeks while he is away. Then he could do the rest after he finishes his current work. He snapped out of the blue, swearing while driving away, leaving you in shock, trying to figure out what just happened.
You might feel quite upset, pondering on why you are like a magnet attracting people like that. The incident might seem awful in the first place while it actually calls for a big celebration. The truth is that you have been evolving with every little bit of mundane life without realising what has changed.
6 months ago, there was a vibrational match between this person’s frequencies and yours. If we must put it in a very blunt way, I would say that you might be a push-over back then while this particular person can feel your frequencies giving out this “pick on me” vibe and walked into your life. It is a pattern in a loop. If nothing was done about it, bullies like that or situations with drama and conflicts would still turn up and drain you. However, within these 6 months, you have been evolved with practicing your spiritual teacher and mentor’s guidance with your work, study and mundane life to gradually changed your pattern of being manipulated and treated like a doormat. In other words, you have forever changed this bit of your subconscious setting and learned to always put yourself first. So you know that you could not wait for him for those three weeks. You must prioritise your interest before anything and anyone else. That is how you break the pattern. The reason why he snapped is because he just realised that he underestimated the variables in you.
At this point, you might ask: How do we end the vicious pattern of attracting people or situations that do not match our frequencies?
If we were in an ideal world, everything would naturally fall into places. You would probably be pushed to a tipping point to determine to break a pattern. Therefore, take the initiative to become aware of it would be the first step.
Second, we will need to learn the wisdom to discern, which means start listening to your inner voice. A low vibrational frequency can never deceive the wisdom of the heart. If something or someone does not make you feel right, then you can not neglect any trivial details that could pop up as a warning.
Last but not least, try to stay away from low vibrational frequencies. And try not to judge as they are evolving on their own paths as well. To other souls that are in different evolving stage, honour their choices, but also remember to stay away from their negativity and even harm.
What is even better is that you can reach out to me to seek out support while you evolve and realign to your heart wisdom of discernment. One of my major soul missions is to experience what disempowerment feels like and retrieve the blessings behind the shadow. Then follow my soul purpose to support and guide others to take back their power that once gave away. If this sounds like what you would like to work on, PM me to find out more.
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